Comments on: Proof http://sugar.lifeisnotamovie.net/2009/08/proof/ Sat, 28 Aug 2010 17:08:50 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Robin http://sugar.lifeisnotamovie.net/2009/08/proof/comment-page-1/#comment-50 Robin Fri, 21 Aug 2009 11:33:45 +0000 http://sugar.lifeisnotamovie.net/2009/08/proof/#comment-50 I don't think I ever said anything negative about her as a person and I don't dislike her because of her health problems I just worry for her and myself. She's a great person, very nice, funny and intelligent. Her problem is she doesn't want to see her health issues or deal with them, it scrares me. I don’t think I ever said anything negative about her as a person and I don’t dislike her because of her health problems I just worry for her and myself. She’s a great person, very nice, funny and intelligent. Her problem is she doesn’t want to see her health issues or deal with them, it scrares me.

]]> By: chaya http://sugar.lifeisnotamovie.net/2009/08/proof/comment-page-1/#comment-49 chaya Fri, 21 Aug 2009 04:31:11 +0000 http://sugar.lifeisnotamovie.net/2009/08/proof/#comment-49 I relate to some of what you said about your relationship with your Mom. I had a great Mom but I did not know it, while she was alive. I saw the negatives in her because I had those negatives in me but I never saw the good in her, in myself and she had so much good. I wasted too much time feeling rejected and I now am so much smarter because I realize that was simply negative behavior which only hurt me. When that time came when I realized that I was just fine and my mother had not crippled me, I was free and I remain free. Now, I can see all the wonderful parts of my mother but unfortunately, I did not recognize this when she was alive. Do me a favor, don't let that happen to you, if it is possible. Gee, I don't know what got into me to write all this. You must have really reached me. Good luck to you. I relate to some of what you said about your relationship with your Mom. I had a great Mom but I did not know it, while she was alive. I saw the negatives in her because I had those negatives in me but I never saw the good in her, in myself and she had so much good.

I wasted too much time feeling rejected and I now am so much smarter because I realize that was simply negative behavior which only hurt me. When that time came when I realized that I was just fine and my mother had not crippled me, I was free and I remain free.

Now, I can see all the wonderful parts of my mother but unfortunately, I did not recognize this when she was alive. Do me a favor, don’t let that happen to you, if it is possible.

Gee, I don’t know what got into me to write all this. You must have really reached me. Good luck to you.

]]> By: Barb http://sugar.lifeisnotamovie.net/2009/08/proof/comment-page-1/#comment-40 Barb Wed, 19 Aug 2009 19:57:32 +0000 http://sugar.lifeisnotamovie.net/2009/08/proof/#comment-40 It is a big step, and you should be proud! (((hugs))) It is a big step, and you should be proud! (((hugs)))

]]> By: Robin http://sugar.lifeisnotamovie.net/2009/08/proof/comment-page-1/#comment-36 Robin Wed, 19 Aug 2009 13:13:06 +0000 http://sugar.lifeisnotamovie.net/2009/08/proof/#comment-36 I can't wait to hear how it is when you go, I recommend it to everyone. I am trying really hard to ignore everyone elses opinions and suggestions and follow what is right for me, it's hard though because I'm trying to have faith in myself. I can’t wait to hear how it is when you go, I recommend it to everyone. I am trying really hard to ignore everyone elses opinions and suggestions and follow what is right for me, it’s hard though because I’m trying to have faith in myself.

]]> By: Robin http://sugar.lifeisnotamovie.net/2009/08/proof/comment-page-1/#comment-35 Robin Wed, 19 Aug 2009 13:11:41 +0000 http://sugar.lifeisnotamovie.net/2009/08/proof/#comment-35 thank you, i'm proud of myself too which is a big step. thank you, i’m proud of myself too which is a big step.

]]> By: Robin http://sugar.lifeisnotamovie.net/2009/08/proof/comment-page-1/#comment-34 Robin Wed, 19 Aug 2009 13:11:18 +0000 http://sugar.lifeisnotamovie.net/2009/08/proof/#comment-34 thanks girl. thanks girl.

]]> By: Fitness Surfer http://sugar.lifeisnotamovie.net/2009/08/proof/comment-page-1/#comment-32 Fitness Surfer Wed, 19 Aug 2009 01:03:39 +0000 http://sugar.lifeisnotamovie.net/2009/08/proof/#comment-32 I struggle with the same thing every day. Even when i go to the grocery store. I struggle with anxiety and no matter the situation it happens. I've had to throw out what everyone else thinks and go by the beat of my own drum...so to day. Do what i want because i want to and...also stop doing the things i hate...ect. It's seriously rejuvenating. I had the opportunity to go river rafting this weekend and babysitters fell thru. It will happen. I struggle with the same thing every day. Even when i go to the grocery store. I struggle with anxiety and no matter the situation it happens. I’ve had to throw out what everyone else thinks and go by the beat of my own drum…so to day. Do what i want because i want to and…also stop doing the things i hate…ect. It’s seriously rejuvenating. I had the opportunity to go river rafting this weekend and babysitters fell thru. It will happen.

]]> By: Barb http://sugar.lifeisnotamovie.net/2009/08/proof/comment-page-1/#comment-31 Barb Tue, 18 Aug 2009 15:23:50 +0000 http://sugar.lifeisnotamovie.net/2009/08/proof/#comment-31 Robin, I know <i>exactly</i> the sort of feelings you must go through when trying to tackle something new, convincing yourself to do it, hating yourself if you don't, being afraid of looking foolish if you do...so I'm so proud of you for getting out there and doing it! Good for you! Robin, I know exactly the sort of feelings you must go through when trying to tackle something new, convincing yourself to do it, hating yourself if you don’t, being afraid of looking foolish if you do…so I’m so proud of you for getting out there and doing it! Good for you!

]]> By: Gwen http://sugar.lifeisnotamovie.net/2009/08/proof/comment-page-1/#comment-30 Gwen Tue, 18 Aug 2009 14:15:49 +0000 http://sugar.lifeisnotamovie.net/2009/08/proof/#comment-30 *hug* *hug*

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